Hiding in a cupboard while the wife sleeps is what you might typically expect of a Babestation caller. While for many, dialling the hotline is a drunken one-off, for some it becomes a regular occurrence. In fact, some of these digital relationships span years, happening right under their spouses’ noses.
Surprisingly, not every call is about sex. Many of the girls shooting content at the £3.9 million Babestation manor claim they’ve developed long-term connections with their clients, acting as a confidante for men who simply need someone to talk to.
Virtual Dates and Designer Gifts
Brooksie Brooks, 32, says she’s built an incredible rapport with regular clients, some of whom have been calling for eight years.
“I know when their birthdays are and do little treats for them,” the former medical secretary explains. “So we’ll have a virtual date night, we’ll have a little something to eat. Have a nice chat and then obviously get all the naughty stuff in at the end.”
These connections often come with serious perks. Brooksie’s received trips to Ibiza and Las Vegas, along with Gucci luggage, Louboutins, and jewellery. But she makes sure to give back to the men who spoil her.
“I’m nice as well because every time when I’m on holiday, I have a daily chat to the client who’s paid for it,” she notes. “You come for the ts, but you stay for the personality, right?”
The Girlfriend Experience and Tackling Loneliness
For other models like 29-year-old Roxy Winters, the job goes far beyond the physical. After getting a degree in psychology, she fell in love with the adult industry. She reckons her best clients are those paying for the ‘girlfriend experience’.
“They like to get to know you as a person,” she says. “They want to know the ins and outs of your life. So if one of these guys is feeling sad, I feel for them. I’m not a therapist but I do feel like I want to make them feel better.”
Roxy Clark agrees, preferring long-term customers who just want to chat. “I have quite a lot of guys that ring up and talk to me about their life and how they haven’t had a girlfriend,” she says. With male loneliness on the rise, models frequently find their shifts involve what might otherwise be considered talking therapy.
Abby, a 24-year-old studying mental health, finds her work deeply inspiring. “I don’t think you can get that kind of experience with talking therapies. We’re being our real selves in the conversation with the men,” she explains. “I think I’m a therapist for most of the guys because they just want to talk, and they want some affection.”
Exploring Kinks in a Safe Space
It isn’t just about tackling loneliness. Models like Bonni G offer a safe haven for people with unusual sexual tastes and kinks who feel unable to unleash their deepest desires in their own bedrooms.
“I have a lot of people who like to be dominated, and I think it’s because they have quite high-pressure jobs,” the former hairdresser explains. “They like to relinquish control. They wouldn’t be able to talk to friends, family, or other halves about it because it’s not part of their identity.”
For Bonni, allowing men to let go and be themselves is incredibly rewarding, ensuring they always “leave feeling good.”
The Moral Dilemma of the Sleeping Wife
But the job isn’t without its moral complexities, especially when a caller reveals they’re hiding their habits from their partners.
Roxy C recalled a client calling while his wife was asleep next to him. As a churchgoer with strong morals, she finds these situations tough. “To me that’s cheating,” she admits, though she maintains her professionalism. “If I don’t give him that, he’s only going to call another girl.”
Abby, however, views the situation differently.
“Half of my customers are with their girlfriends or wife. But I don’t feel guilty,” she reasons. “He’s not touching me. I’m not touching him. He’s just watching me. People watch loads of crime documentaries. It doesn’t make you a murderer because you watched something about it.”