Take a Lesson From the porn stars, dirty talk can make your sex life filthier than ever! Dirty talk has been part of many sexual sessions for countless years however, not everyone that tries to delve into it, can truly maximize its power. At the end of the day, dirty talk is as powerful as the sex itself, in fact, it can be an entire form of foreplay that can last for hours on end, maximizing the impact that the sexual session will have. In a way, dirty talk is so effective that some people get
off just by hearing it.
Unlike many people think, dirty talk isn’t just telling your partner what you will be doing to them or how you’re going to do it but, it is instead a form of art where you can turn the deepest sexual desires into words and project them towards the person you’re having sex with. Ultimately, dirty talk is certainly something that requires quite a bit of experience to master so, who could be better suited to master such an arcane art? Porn stars!
Porn stars have had countless sex encounters on camera, therefore, they have more than enough experience to translate those sexual encounters into words, painting a picture on their partner’s minds and getting them hard with nothing but the sound of their voices and their river of words. So, with that said, what would be some of the tips and tricks that an outstanding porn star would provide to those that are looking into getting better at dirty talk? That’s exactly what we’ll be exploring!
Practice
Before we actually get into what you should do to maximize your dirty talk, it should be mentioned that none of it will work without some practice. Much like anything in life, in order for you to get good at something, you need to practice. Any porn star out there would tell you the exact same thing. If you want to be good at oral sex, you need to practice and the same goes for dirty talk. Now, naturally, you want to get things ready for your partner as quickly as possible and, surely, you would prefer to avoid awkward lines with them so, practicing with them might not be the most ideal plan. Instead, practicing with yourself is the best way to do it. Laying down in bed and getting ready to pleasure yourself is a great way to practice your dirty talk skills. Talk dirty with yourself or even in
front of a mirror and, sure, it might feel a bit awkward at first but, the point is, if you get horny by your own words alone then you are on track to becoming an expert dirty talker!
When Inspiration Comes, Write It Down
One particular aspect of dirty talking that can make it so difficult for so many people is the lack of imagination. Perhaps you don’t know what kind of picture to paint on your partner’s mind and, that is completely fine however, that is the main part of dirty talking as well. As humans, we tend to have a few bursts of imagination here and there as we go through our daily lives and, that includes having some very dirty and filthy thoughts.
If you are just starting out with dirty talking and, as you go through your day, a filthy thought crosses your mind, just write it down because that way you won’t forget it and you’ll be able to use it when performing that sweet dirty talk act with your partner.
Stick With It, No Matter How Hard It Is
Porn stars are great when it comes to having sex but, any porn star would tell you that it can be a bit hard to start getting into dirty talk at first. Dirty talk isn’t physical, it is a mental stimulant, therefore, using your brain instead of your body when it comes to sex, can feel a bit difficult at first. However, much like anything in life, it is important that you don’t give up right away. It might feel a little bit awkward to start dirty talking with your partner (and that is completely normal) however, keeping with it and not giving up instantly is what’s going to make it so great. You are already in it so, might as well fully commit to the dirty talk instead of thinking twice about it. Dirty talk is not about being good in bed, it’s not about taking it well or giving it properly, it is about the brain, about painting a picture that will drive your partner crazy, therefore, it is important to have a strong mind and will to succeed.
Project Your Fantasies
In case you are just not the kind of person that has a lot of imagination to create new sexual scenarios in your head and translate them into words then fret not because there is a fail-proof tactic to get the dirty talk as good as it can be! Instead of imagining a scenario and then turning it into dirty talk with your partner, project your deepest sexual fantasies! Talk about what you want your partner to do to you or what you want to do to them and do not skip any details. The most important part of dirty talk is to take it step-by-step without stumbling on the way so the picture is laid out in front of your partner perfectly, in order to get them aroused.
Be Graphic
The last (but definitely not least) and most important tip on this list is to be graphic. Any porn star that has delved into dirty talk would tell you that this is the most important aspect to consider when trying to talk dirty with your partner and that couldn’t be more true. The reason why dirty talking is so hot and arousing is because it paints a clear sexual picture in your partner’s mind, however, that cannot be achieved if you are not graphic enough.
It is important to talk about everything in great detail! From moaning to juices, sweat and even movements, dirty talk is all about the details so, without them, it just wouldn’t have the same impact.
