Ever wanted to try out a bit of G-spot play? Well you’re in luck! We’re going to tell you everything you need to know about the elusive G-spot orgasm and how to achieve it. Firstly, did you know that the G-spot is often referred to as the P-spot; the “P” stands for prostate. If you’re having trouble locating your prostate you can actually reach it two ways: internally and externally. Both ways can feel incredible so it really depends entirely on your comfort level.
Internally
If you want to get right in there you can locate your prostate gland about 2 inches inside the rectum. I’d say go up to your first-knuckle if you have average-length fingers.
Externally
You can indirectly stimulate the prostate via the perineum (y’know, that bit of skin between your cock and balls) by using a ‘come hither’ motion with a bent finger. It’s much easier if you have a partner to do this for you.
Asking a partner to massage your prostate definitely isn’t something you want to spring on them mid-sex so you might want to have a chat beforehand so you gauge if it’s something they are even up for trying. Once you’ve established they’re up for it then you can plan for the main event.
Get the tools
Don’t worry, I don’t mean power tools. You just need a few things on hand when you go searching for the P-spot:
- Lube. There’s no such thing as too much lube when it comes to anal play.
- Barrier protection. Sorry to spoil the mood but you might need to protect you and your partner from the things that come out of the ass. You know what I mean. You might want to try gloves or a condom over the finger.
- Anal toys. They aren’t totally necessary but they sure can add a little more spice to prostate play. Some toys are even shaped in such a way to really hit that prostate.
- Wipes. Pretty self explanatory!
Use the bathroom
Guys that have never had prostate g-spot stimulation before say that the first time they have it they felt like they were going to pee, and anal penetration can bring on the sensation of needing to poo. Not a great combo. We definitely recommend using the bathroom beforehand.
Set the mood
Don’t even attempt to go in there or have your partner go in there until you are fully relaxed and fully aroused. Some ideas for setting the mood:
- Hot bath or shower
- Nude massages
- Foreplay
G-Spot – Go Go Go
After you’ve set the mood, grabbed the lube and gotten warmed up, you’re ready to get in there and start massaging your prostate. Here’s how to get cracking:
- Use the tips of your/or your partners index and middle fingers to rub, stroke, or press the perineum.
- Experiment with different sensations by trying different pressures and speeds.
- Use your other hand to pleasure yourself
When they’re ready for more:
- Apply lube to your finger and slowly insert your finger into your anus an inch or two in, and start moving your finger in an upward motion toward the front of their body.
- Feel around to locate the prostate. It feels like a rounded bulb of tissue, similar to the tip of your nose.
- Once you locate the g-spot, move your finger in a “come hither” motion over and over against the prostate.
- If you and your partner are both up for it, simultaneously stroking or sucking them off can really take the pleasure up from a 5 to a 10!
Got Milk?
Did you know that massaging the prostate can sometimes cause the release of a milky fluid. This is why stimulating the prostate is sometimes referred to as milking. If you see milk, keep going, because an explosive orgasm is on the horizon.
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